A Meaningful New Year

Dear Friends,

We all sends greetings to our loved one indicating "Happy New Year" every year but does this greetings of New Year is really a happy part of us is a question which I have tried to explain this post titled "A Meaningful New Year".

Gladness and happiness are the two important parts in our life.We always try to be happy at all the times but it is also found that sometimes we pretend to be happy and we are not actually from inside.I believe that happiness must come from within i.e. internal on the other side it is not so always.We meet friends , relatives , brothers and sisters and their presence makes us happy for a moment  but after sometimes the situation becomes similar to the condition we were earlier.Life is full of emotional attachment with our near and dear one,we feel happy when we get attached to someone but suddenly we feel very much sad when we depart from each other,this is life all about.I had thought that we must enjoy meeting others and also enjoy that separation as this will again leads to a bond of reunion in future .As you would have experienced ,there are many people ,incidents or experiences that have satisfied you emotionally.The mental satisfaction is precious and rare.Those who have it are really Happy People.

As we all are stepping in the New Year -2013 and eagerly waiting for the moment that we can have the celebration of 31st December night followed by New Year celebration and entering the New Year-2013 with rejoice, happiness and cheers.It is good to have such beautiful moments of happiness but is that thing leads you to mental satisfaction or just for the fun and passing time we are momentary happy and then again we will be coming back to square one where we have started.I was very much shaken by the incident that took place in the last month of this year 2012 in Delhi the capital of India that have stirred whole country and raised the question that where the mankind is going and in which path we all are progressing.At both the ends i.e. victim and the culprits they belong to the same society where we all resides,and what makes them to do this heinous crime shows the state of mental imbalance of the minds of wrongdoers.Now look again and try to answer where the happiness is? I think that it is purely missing at both the ends.

On a quick review I don't think that being happy from outside and not from inside is real happiness.We all are conditioned to think that our lives always rotate around great moments.Real mental satisfaction leads to happiness and to achieve it man have to look towards the path of Dharma or Spirituality because it is that area which gives us peace,mental satisfaction and also teaches us to become a responsible person which is above all and then only it would be a "Meaningful New Year" otherwise this coming year will also be like the yesteryear's that have passed without any impact in our life.

In anticipation that you would have understand the real sense of a "Meaningful New Year"

Happy New Year -2013

Failures.The path to SUCCESS...

All living creatures in their life face many ups and downs. Sometimes it makes us happier to the fullest and sometimes leads towards depression and negativity. The negative part of life is the unsuccessful episode and we never forget it. Most of the people surround us comments that we must try to forget this negative side but on reality it is and unforgettable occurrence. So then what to do? is a big question because we always regret to our failures. The failures in our life are a message that communicates us the gap between efforts and the success. We must try to reduce this gap as much as possible by more and more efforts and then we will be very close to the success. Success counts beautiful to those who missed it by a narrow margin and they are the only one who can tell the real meaning of success. To be successful the first thing we have to do is try to eliminate the sadness or depression that comes in our minds because of failures, it is the failures which tells us the path of success and a clever person understands this and utilize it as an opportunity. Some blame the system for this and some for something else and thus wasting their precious time in criticizing only. 

In this entire tête-à-tête we forget to show our efforts in right directions but we focus more in the unproductive part and thus again widens the gap between the efforts and success. A strong decision and clear focus towards the achievement of target is needed and then it will pull success more proximate to you. 

Last but not least, we must not forget that there is always someone that is going to accept you for who you are.  There will always be someone to be your friend and come to your aid when you need it and that is nothing but your “LIFE” so be Happy and Cheerful for what you are today and what you think you’ll be tomorrow.

Jason's nature

Last night  Jason was having very high fever,we were worried as we love him very much and was performing the water therapy so that the fever would lower down.Around 2.30 am in the early morning the fever shoot up to 102.8 , I and Shweta was very much worried but Jason was not at all bothered and he was fully cooperating us to do the water therapy and taking the bitter medicine paracetamol and this quality of my seven year old son really impressed me and profound my love towards him.

Decoding Teacher's Day

“Teacher’s Day”, when this word buzz in our ear we have an immediate feeling of remembrance for our teachers and we dedicate it to them for teaching us in different stages of life. Here I am not discussing the same thing again but I am going to analyse why and for whom we celebrate this day.

The above said word it’s for whom, who teach us in different stages of life, so did we ever notice that there is not just one teacher, but there are n number of teachers and now we don’t remember the name of all of them. Let’s recall the memory of our beautiful past, which we have lived with the grace of ‘God’, The Teacher all above.

When we born, we meet the first teacher , which is “life” itself, who teaches us everything with the help of people and situations around us, the next we meet with our best teacher and well wisher our ‘Mother’, who never stop her teaching, she tells us what is love, affection, care etc., the words are not enough. And the same way there is another teacher in our life is our ‘Father’, He teaches us with all his experiences of life. And as we grow up we go to the school and meet to them, for whom the world celebrates this day. But why we forget those class mates, who taught us in practicality what is fight, friendship, jealous and other emotions of life, which help us to express our feelings without uttering a single word from our tongue.

As we grow little more and go to the college for higher education, the process of learning different things and different emotions get continuous and we meet some more teachers, who teach us many things about  career, interests in profession/business, politics etc. This phase of life is very important in our life as it makes and creates the base of our future family and understandings between us. Likewise in every phase of our life we meet many teachers who taught us every damn thing, which we feel we required.

So the question above was that for whom and why we celebrate this day. And who is the actual teacher?

The answer is very simple; we all celebrate this day as “Teacher’s Day” for all those who were and will be our guidelines and help lines all over in our lives.

 Happy Teachers Day!!!